Oh God, yes, you get weak when I you. This is where it all starts for u losers, isn’t it? Fancying girls when you were schoolboys, but losing out to the cooler and more handsome, athletic and sportier boys we girls (rightly) chose instead of u. The awareness of your inadequacy and undesirability that embeds in your memory stays with u forever … and it means you feel weak and nervous when you see an attractive woman . However much of an apparently self-confident adult male you have become, you always end up feeling, “She knows - she just knows you’re a loser and a sexual inadequate.” And, actually, we probably do - girls have a kind of “sixth sense” for sniffing out weakness in you.