Admit it. You've been living in the shadows, hiding behind a facade. It's a tough facade to maintain, isn't it? You've been pretending to be someone you're not, constantly lying to yourself and others. The fear of judgment, the fear of rejection, it all weighs heavy on your shoulders. But, it's time to break free. It's okay to expose your truth, to announce to the world, "I am gay". It's alright to be authentic, to be vulnerable, to be yourself. Because, in the grand scheme of things, what's the point of living a life that isn't yours? Now, here's the tough part - public coming out. You've been ruminating over this for a long time, haven't you? It's terrifying, but it's a vital step in owning your identity. Broadcasting to everyone that you take pleasure in being with men, that you relish in the ecstasy they provide, that's liberating. But remember, the admission isn't just for them; it's for you. By externalizing your truth, you're reinforcing your self-acceptance. You're declaring to yourself, "I am gay, and that's okay". Nonetheless, let's not sugarcoat this. Coming out publicly isn't a joyous celebration of your newfound identity. It's a proclamation of a deviant lifestyle that many may find shocking or unacceptable. Some might even see it as a confession of being a sexual object for men. And that's okay too. By opening yourself up to the world, you're inviting scrutiny, ridicule, even disgust. But the good news is, you've been living in fear for so long that you've become adept at dealing with discomfort. So, go on, expose yourself, tell everyone you're gay. It's time for you to live your truth, no matter how uncomfortable or degrading others might find it. (16 min)